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After the dating apps: when to switch to a matchmaker
You have tried everything and still no one lasting? Seven signs it is time to meet differently — and how it works.
The 7 signs it is time to change method
If three of these signs ring true, another way of meeting deserves a try.
- You open the app out of habit, not desire
- Conversations stop without explanation
- Dates disappoint because the person was not as described
- You feel fatigue, even mistrust
- Your free time is limited (career, family, travel)
- You are starting over after a divorce or a loss
- You now want something stable and lasting
In Luxembourg, 38.9% of households consist of one person, and 27.9% of all households are a person living alone under 65 (Eurostat, 2025, series break). Being single here is common — and not a personal failure.
On top of that, divorce is frequent: 46.6 divorces per 100 marriages in 2024 (Eurostat), with an average marriage length of 12.5 years at divorce (STATEC). Many people restart in their forties and beyond.
How does the switch work?
Four steps: an interview, a selection, organised meetings and a follow-up.
- Interview: private and confidential, to understand what you want and what did not work before
- Selection: compatible people, chosen by hand
- Meetings: introductions organised in a serious, discreet setting
- Follow-up: a debrief after each meeting to adjust the next one
Do you have to delete the apps?
Not necessarily: some keep them for a while, but most prefer to focus on a single channel to regain energy and clarity.
Who is Easys for?
- Executives, business leaders and independents short of time
- International professionals newly settled in Luxembourg
- Divorced or widowed people who want a gentle restart
- Anyone who values selection and confidentiality over volume
See also matchmaking agency prices in Luxembourg and meeting singles after a separation.
Curious how it works for you? The first private interview at Easys is complimentary and without commitment: about an hour with Nathalie Teston to understand your journey, at our Gasperich office or by arrangement.
Frequently asked questions
When should I stop using dating apps?
When they take time and energy without leading to a relationship, or when they tire you. There is no ideal duration: what matters is to listen to your own weariness.
Is a matchmaking agency suitable if I already tried apps?
Yes, that is the case for many people: the interview helps understand what did not work and target the next steps better.
How much does a matchmaking agency cost in Luxembourg?
A premium agency represents an investment of several thousand euros over six to twelve months. See our guide to matchmaking prices in Luxembourg.
How long until my first meeting?
With Easys, the first meeting usually happens within 1 to 3 weeks. No result can be guaranteed.
How can I try Easys without committing?
The first private interview at Easys is complimentary and without commitment. It lasts about an hour and serves to understand your journey before any decision. You can request it here.
Ready to talk about your situation?
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